ALL YOU THINK THAT YOU CAN DO, YOU CAN DO IT PERFECTLY

SELINGKUH…IS IT OK??

“Cinta diri atau self love yang cukup di dalam sebuah relasi memampukan seseorang memberi hadiah cinta terindah.”

“Hadiah terindah itu adalah kebebasan. Pergi dengan siapa pun boleh saja. Bukannya tidak peduli. Ini adalah sebuah perwujudan bahwa kita bukan budak dari rasa takut untuk ditinggalkan”

“Dengan self love yang cukup itu perselingkuhan bukanlah peristiwa besar yang menghancurkan diri dalam sebuah relasi. “

welll…..first question will be…what do you think?is it right?

according to me….affair is -well let say- OK, if there is no more feelings but just “have sex”…we know, and it is absolutely happen that affairs become more complicated if there are much conversations after they- i mean a couple who do affair- have sex…

because intimacy comes after they do sharing their life one each other, tell about their hobbies, their secret, their family….etc…….after that, i am sure..the relationship become more than just ‘sex-partner’…

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self love….hmmm…a little bit strange..it seems like we do a huge sacrifice without any respons from our lover….but of course we should do-i mean- love needs sacrifices but it must be done by two subjects-not just one-. then….

“Hadiah terindah itu adalah kebebasan. “
the next question will be, ” what kind of freedom we should give to our lover?”freedom of having sex with someone else everyday?let our lover change his (or her) sex partner everyday? just like choose it and take it from a fridge then eat it?

of course it will be OK- if we let our lover to have relationship with anyone…anything….but his (or her) heart just for us. but if there are choices, of course we do agree to have a lover that his (or her) life just for us…..but once again “love” is an undeniable fellings…we just couldn’t say anything if LOVE has touched our life and heart….and because of that…sometimes it is really hard to have a good thoughts when-for example-our lover has owned by (or belongs to) someone…because…yeaahhhh…..once again it is LOVE..we just could close our eyes-not to see anything else…any hindrances….the world become ours….

i  know it is a kind of mistake when  we love someone that is belongs to someone else….but…i just wanna say….LOVE speaks much….we couldn’t say anything if it comes….we will compare ourselves to his (her) really lover….we will feel as a person who couldn’t do the best for our partner….hmmm…something like feeling guilty….but yeahhh….this is a hard choice….blame it to…..(confused)..     :p  :’(

“perselingkuhan bukanlah peristiwa besar yang menghancurkan diri dalam sebuah relasi. “
hmmm…really? could we deal with it? hmmmmm…big question mark in my brain……i have to say that it is really hard..both as his (or her) really couple or the affair partner. Because we must ready to make a big deal to anything….must ready for being jealous….must ready for anything….yeahh……that’s it!

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